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šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ‰ Heartbreak

I can’t count the number of times in my life when I’ve had my hopes crushed.


Not getting the job you thought was yours.

The house or apartment you prayed would become your home slipping away.

A marriage ending.

A love that was never returned.

A boss who crushed more than they built.

The sting of betrayal, the ache of abuse.

A friend who drifts, or worse, walks away.

A body that falters when your spirit longs to run.

Finances unraveling, debts, layoffs, the fear of not being enough.

The silence after your art, your work, your words are offered… and refused.


šŸ–¤ I’ve faced so many of these at different points in my journey. And in those moments, it feels like the lowest of the low, like nothing will ever work out in work, in love, or in life.


When you’re in that place, it feels endless. Like you’ll never climb out of the well. Even paralyzed.


But every time I’ve fallen deep, after the tears, after feeling it all… I’ve lifted my head and seen the light at the top.


ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„ A reminder that second chances wait.

ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„ New opportunities appear.

ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„ Better situations rise when we choose to rise.


One lesson I carry: learn from the past, but don’t drag the pain forward.

Guard your heart, not by closing it, but by protecting it from bitterness. Because bitterness ruins new chances.


Adapt. Trust. Stay open. And let the winds of change carry you higher.


šŸ“– Today’s dragon truth from Breath of the Dragon, my book that grabs the top 100 lessons one learns from my other book, The Leadership Leap:

ā€œAdaptation turns reflection into momentum—learn from each moment, adjust your course, and use every shift as fuel to move further and make a greater impact.ā€


šŸ‰ ā€œA wise dragon studies the winds—not to stand still, but to change course and ride them farther than before.ā€


šŸ’¬ Which of these have you lived, the job, the home, the love, the friendship, the health, the rejection? And what did you learn when you finally looked up and saw the light?


🐲 On September 25 in Utrecht, I’ll be reading live from The Leadership Leap, signing books, and hosting a live coaching evening to help leaders turn setbacks into strength.


šŸŽŸļø Register here

šŸ“– Order books

ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„ Sign up for the Leadership Landing Program — starting again in two weeks!


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